There is a difference between our worshiping God personally and corporately (church).
We are called children of God. There is an incredible closeness between a child and a loving Father.
But, when we worship as a body (church) we are called Christ’s “bride”. There is a whole new level of intimacy we experience when we the bride/body worships and the child worships. Both are vital to our growth, and each type of relationship must be a priority.
It’s been said a thousand times, “I’m spiritual but not religious” or, “I love God but not church” or, “God’s great but I don’t like organized religion”. We know there is something wrong with human “religion” so many begin to question all religion. As for the idea of not attending church out of duty or guilt, I agree totally. And the representation that many churches give of a vital relationship with our Lord is so messed up its sinful. Church is supposed to be accepting of people, excited about meeting Christ, intimate and real with one another, and yes, even fun! However, not connecting to a church as a reaction to our dissatisfaction is also wrong. God says that He builds the body and that body is to do His will on earth. Each of us makes up a vital part of that body. What if your eye said, “I don’t feel like working this week”? Would that affect the function of the whole body? Yes! Or what if your hand said, “I don’t care for this body I’ve been attached to. I’m going to wander around to different bodies”? That hand is only thinking of itself and not how it is part of a bigger whole. Its selfishness hampers the body it was designed to be a part of.
This is how I believe the Bible directs us to live:
1. Build our personal relationship with Jesus daily through prayer and Bible study. Make it real. Don’t stop until you feel you have truly surrendered your will to the Father.
2. Thrive in community - church and small groups. Pray and pray that God leads you to the church body (we’d love it if that was 24-Seven) and small group you were designed for. It should worship in both Spirit and in Truth. “I like that one” should not be the deciding factor, rather, God has led me here to serve and be part of this family. Don’t jump around when things don’t go your way. If things are not going as you want, remember they seldom do in our earthly families either. If you want to see change, be the change. Every word and deed should strengthen, not tear down the body.
3. Serve. Find out how God has gifted you and what your passions are then get plugged in. Also find a need based ministry too (no one is gifted at sweeping or cleaning toilets but someone has to do it). Jesus was/is the ultimate servant. You cannot grow if you do not serve.
4. Share. Find a way to share your faith regularly. Be creative. One of the ways we help our churches become effective at sharing Jesus in our cities is to give regularly and faithfully with tithes and offerings.
If we decide to skip even one of these ingredients, we are like a cake without the sugar, or flour, or water - it’s really not worth much nor very satisfying.
What if groups of people came together and passionately gave their lives TOTALLY to the cause of Christ? Are we ready to change the world?
God bless on your journey!
